这就是长大

1.学会把亲情放在第一位,把友情放在第二位,把爱情放在够不到的位置

2.学会不和父母顶嘴,学会为了维护友谊让步

3.学会不想着依赖别人,做好自己,让别人依赖你

4.学会认清自己,不是很好,也不算坏,不把头扬的很高,也不拿眼睛盯别人的脚

5.学会把喜欢的人放在心底,默默的喜欢,有种情不需要张扬

6.学会不为了自己喜欢的人和别人争论,或许你并不了解他

7.学会口是心非,看到自己喜欢的人和别人在一起,请祝福

8.学会独自一个人承受一些事,一个人守着一些秘密

 9.学会适当减肥,不要过度,为了某些人,坚持

10.学会去关心家人,朋友,不要以为他们不会离开我们,就不在意

11.学会交际,和所有的人搞好关系,踏入社会,面对的人会更多

12.学会掩饰忧伤,对别人笑,要哭,躲被窝里

13.学会成熟处事,即使是装出来的

14.学会在特殊的节日,给别人一个小小的惊喜,感动一个人很简单,让她（他）知道你心中有她（他）的位置

15.学会不相信童话故事,永远记得仙杜瑞拉有的水晶鞋是你没有的

16.学会必要的欺骗,不要说你诚实,埋没了善良更可恶

17.学会为自己的人生做好打算,自己争取来的更值得珍惜

18.学会不计较,忘记一些不愉快,也许你会更快乐

19.学会无条件付出,想想父母,你会释然

20.学会写日记,我们的人生并不是很长,把它记下足可以让你重拾记忆。

好好过日子,终会长大,学会不让爱我们的人对我们失望.
 拿得起,放得下,该放手的时候,不要拖泥带水,告诉自己,学会自爱,也会活得很好..



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如果我们在一起

如果当时结局不一样

会是怎样？





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L.O.N.E

There must be sometimes, where you'll feel so insecure and need someone by ur side to make u feel safe.

Sadly i'm facing moments like this quite frequently recently where i'm dealing with so many uncertainties.

The sadder thing is i can't really find anyone to talk to and calm me down.

The saddest thing will be, even if i have someone to talk to, i still need to face it by my own. So what is the purpose of having somebody to listen to you and talk to you? You still go back to the same.

And people will not be there for you 24/7. They have their own stuffs to busy with. So stop relying on people.

At the end you still face everything by your own. ALone. I understand, anyhow this is still a one-person-journey.



I'm still feeling insecure. And lonely.






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